Before anyone private messages me about this, just know that if you can read this, then this is not about and/or targeted about you. So relax.
2018 gave us the phrase big dick energy. The urban dictionary defines it as “confidence without cockiness”. Of course its based on the concept of someone who is well endowed but doesn’t need to bring it up. Someone who is ok with one of the most intimate parts of themselves and thus can not let their own life be dominated by insecurity.
To me, the opposite of this is little dick energy. This is of course not an attack on anybody’s actual body. We are made how we are made and who cares.
But damn theres a lot of little dick energy going around.
I would define little dick energy as someone who see’s their failings as their destiny. Someone who’s problems are not the only thing under their control, but are like the waves of an ocean that they are navigating on a tiny dick raft.
I have had hard years, and I have had catastrophic years, and its ok to fuck up. But what I’m talking about is the tendency to subjugate yourself to your own trouble. To assume that your abilities, whatever they are, are a fixed point and can not be improved, grown or edited.
The early days of the internet brought us never ending ads for boner pills that promised to grow your piece by inches and quickly. What a world that would be if it was true. Lower back pain in men would go through the roof. I digress.
Every time you agree with the voice that tries to make you shrink, you are repping that little dick energy.
Every time you think the petty grievances you’ve endured are the reason you can’t win, little dick energy.
Every time you don’t show up for what and who really matters in your life, you guessed it.
We all got to push this out of our life and build some momentum while the new year is still new.